Holding Grudges!

In my case, I have realized that holding grudges is so pointless that I am not even sure who is getting hurt by it. Its just lame and disappointing. And, it doesn't change anything. You remain the same, sticking to your viewpoint, and so does the other person. Madness, that's what it is. But yet, grudges are not so easy to let go of - at which point you'd seek some kind of a tit for tat. Worst idea ever.

There are so many dimensions to this but like many others things, this too is futile.